Today I want to ask you, what is your dream? What do you feel is your goal? Have you found it yet? Are you working towards it? Many questions, yes but all well intended. In the pursuit of our goals and dreams, we tend to have some obstacles that we place ourselves and others we have no control over. This is what I want us to dive into today. I am no psychologist or expert nor do I claim to be. I am just a girl in love with tea and sponge cakes with a perspective that I would like to share with your lovely brain, and if I’m lucky, your big heart too. So let’s do this!!!
As going after what we want, the first obstacle is ourselves. When we want to do something, we need to believe that somehow it will work out. That it will work. But if we doubt, we will be going in circles and not making too much progress. Believing in ourselves, believing that we will overcome and be victorious is something to be held dear. In the same breath, we cannot be full of pride and imagine that we know it all. We buckle down, learn then do it our way. The way we think is the best.
Another thing is the people we surround ourselves with. Some of them may not be on team us and that’s okay. Some of them will pretend to be on team us then fall away when we need them the most and that’s okay. Some people will support team us all the way, and maybe even more than we will support ourselves and that is okay. All these people, we cannot control and that’s the way it is supposed to be. All we can, is control our reaction to them.
To the different situations. Because people should not stop you from the awesomeness of your goal. So continue on. And the last thing I want to tell us goal achievers is that, failing is part of the process. Failing many times, does not mean we are losers, it means that we are resilient and willing to go as far as we can to achieve our dreams. And also because we will look super fine when we win, so we keep at it. When we fail, we get up and move along. With lessons in our mind, scars and a fresh new perspective and level of determination.
You are the best person to achieve this dream, whether big or small. It doesn’t matter how many people have the same dream, or that you lack resources, or that you do not know where to start. The facts are that this is your dream and it came from you so do it and do not hold back. What dream do you have or did you have that you were able to achieve? Mine is writing this!!!!
Thanks for reading and have a good one!!