So today I want to be super real with you. Take you through some of the things I have been dealing with. Well mostly it is just one thing, but of course it does breed into many things.
I love talking to you guys so much. Honestly I can do it all day every day, no complaints. But I still need to eat and get professional experience, and so I work. With work, some days are busy and others are not. On the busy days, I find that I do not get time to do a post or when I do get the time to do the post, I just sit in front of the computer and stare at a blank page. No ideas come to in head!!!!
Yes, you are exactly right. This is when the self-doubt rushes through, taking down every shred of confidence I had in myself. So I end up writing down five post ideas that I eventually delete because I feel they are not good enough. I start questioning myself, my skill set, my choices, whether I’m good enough or not, why I am being so negative yet I am a positive unicorn with a dash of swag on her tail.
So many unnecessary questions have . This is exactly how we harm our self-confidence and drive. We are so harsh and mean to ourselves and yet we are the ones who’ve placed the feelings and pondering of self-doubt within ourselves. Seeing people from high school or anywhere else who seem so successful, then there’s you are feeling like no progress is being made. Many things seem to be not working out. Something my gorgeous bae (hehe just go with it) says all the time;
Don’t compare your bloopers to somebody’s highlight reel.
They say that self-doubt kills more dreams that actual failure. So do you have a dream that needs to be exploded into existence!!! Then do it. Work hard, keep your head up and you will succeed my friend. We can do tis!!!! I am so grateful that I have this opportunity to talk to you guys because this is a pep talk to myself as well. Sometimes a little reminder goes a long way.
Let us be kind to one another but best of all, let us be kind ourselves. We are doing the best we can and that is pretty darn good if you ask me.
Thanks for reading and have a good one!!!!