So what did I do, you ask? To be honest, I slept in for about an hour first. It is the weekend after all. Anyway, after that I went on a hunt for some inspiration food for my mind and heart. Positivity really does take work but I assure you, it is well worth it! It creates strength within ourselves and in what we can do.
So I went on my browser and decided to look at those tabs I had saved but had not gone through. Do you have those tabs? You open them then find out that they are too long to be read then you end up not reading them for weeks or even months. That is where this specific website was. I do not really have a reason why it was put in the back burner to simmer for as long as it did, but I’m glad it did because it helped me today. And so here we are!
Someone told me a few weeks ago that I should start standing up for myself and have confidence in myself and in all that I am. To be honest, I was taken aback. “What do you mean have confidence? I am a confident person! I think, I don’t know, what do you think?…………Oooooooooooh I see what you mean”
You see, we feel okay and just fine. But would you put yourself up to be scrutinized by someone else? Not that I’m saying that you should and I am not talking about pride, which is a no no. I am specifically calling out your self-confidence. Are you confident in yourself?
Are you confident enough to take up new risks? Are you confident enough to stand up for yourself? Let me ask an easy one. Are you confident enough to be honest with yourself and with everybody around you? Eh?
There are people who are already! And it is so beautiful to watch!!! For us who are still building our self-confidence now, just know that we will get there as long as we keep a positive outlook on life and our growth. Worry not because the site I read had steps to build this confidence. The website is Zen Habits. Read through it when you can, and maybe let us follow as much as we can so as to become better and stronger versions of ourselves.
Thanks for reading and have a good one!!
P.S: It is the topic on the website that I think was discussed very well, not that I am
sponsoring it in any way whatsoever. Just thought I would add that.