Hello lovely people!!! To be honest this post has a life of its own. I was to share about one thing then another came out of it. So we will combine the two things, like a combo! Let me give a bit of backstory to this so that we can get on the same page.
The day before yesterday I was listening to Simon Sinek on YouTube and he was talking about how in this day and age people feel unfulfilled at work because we want to progress but we are not willing to help each other out. The reason why we feel good when we help people, and he clarified not in terms of money, is because it is supposed to be in our human nature to do so. And that made so much sense to me and I purposed to share it with you all.
Then, as I was writing that post I fell asleep and when I resurfaced from passing out for close to an hour of sleep, I reached for my tea and a bit of telly to wake me up. Then I watched Lilly Singh’s vlog of the day on her vlog channel “where the hustle don’t stop” and she just inspires the socks off me. This is why I have colourful socks. Anyway, she went to a girl love event (her campaign) and it was intimate and cool.
So yes you guessed right, we are talking about girls helping each other out. It’s cool if you did not know we were guessing…..this is Jack2y the land of positive vibes, love and light so we are crazy and sane at the same time. (Oh snap!)
There is a lady at work, she is a superior, and she told me whenever I feel down, I can tell her about it and we can talk about it. That I think was the highlight of my week. It felt like an elder sister telling me, “I got your back sis.” She did not wait until I was in trouble to tell me this, she just genuinely told me this to help out. I honestly almost cried, coz you guys know I cry at everything.
This reminded me of a wonderful young girl who has so much potential and such an amazing drive but such a low outlook on what girls can do that sometimes it makes me sad. So many times I have seen we as women by pass each other and yet we can help each other out so much. We can create this wonderful safe place full of information and love. I have been so very lucky that in the past recent months, I have met this amazing incredible group of women who did not even know me too well and yet have helped me so much. They have pushed me. They made my issues that seemed unsolvable so minute. It blows my mind that this is not a common practice. And it does not take a special kind of woman or girl for this to happen. It just takes you to believe that we are stronger together.
I do talk about girl love and girl power frequently because I hope that a sister in a good place will help a sister in a bad place and a sister in a bad place will have the courage to turn to a sister in a good place for help. Fair warning my dear, these Angels are just to add spice or add a bit of fruit to your life. Do not forget who you are and what you are worth. Your journey is what is most important to you. And yes you are amazing and the world would not be the same without you! That’s how important you are.
This part is for those of us who feel lost or have felt lost at some point. Keep going, tomorrow will be better. If they leave, if they ghost you out, if they make you feel worthless, that is their definition and not your reality. You have the power to choose better for you, do not feel guilty about that. If it feels lonely, hola at your girl, regardless of your time zone! I got you boo! All in all let’s help each other out in love. Yes, this goes for the guys too.
Much love guys! As always, I wish you nothing but positive vibes, love and light! Thanks for reading and have a good one!